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Priests of the Jewish nation (Kohanim) are prohibited from approaching the dead. Whether in a hospital, a cemetery or even for the burial ceremony. Kohanim are only allowed to come in contact with the deceased from a short list of immediate family members. At the top of that list is the wife.
Rabbi Shlomo Ephraim of Prague, the Kli Yakar (1550-1619), on Leviticus 21:2 explains both the unusual formulation for wife in the verse (âsheero hakarovâ â literally, âhis flesh that is closeâ) and why sheâs mentioned first. He states that while the husband may be the classical breadwinner, the wife is the one who historically turned grain into food and threads into clothes.
The term âsheero hakarovâ indicates this proximity, that according to Rabbinic dictum, the wife is as his own body (âishto kegufoâ). The Kli Yakar explains that in a smoothly operating household the wife is the one who âbrightens his eyes and stands him on his feet.â More than a parent and more than a child, oneâs spouse can and ideally should be as close to a unit as possible. In a healthy and loving relationship, spouses consider each other as one body, a pair that when unified is much stronger and more powerful than their individual selves.
May we each find and be cherished spouses.
Shabbat Shalom
Dedication: To the 2024 International Chidon HaâTanach (Bible Contest) that was conducted on Yom Haâatzmaut. It was particularly inspiring and moving.