As we can see from this story, even those who may not have lived an observant life can still find redemption through the actions of their descendants or through the kindness of others. This emphasizes the importance of reaching out to all Jews, regardless of their level of observance, and including them in our community and our prayers.
Regarding your question about asking non-observant Jews to join a minyan, it is a complex issue that requires careful consideration. While the presence of a minyan is essential for certain prayers and communal obligations, such as saying Kaddish, it is important to ensure that the integrity of the minyan is maintained. This means that all participants should ideally be observant Jews who are able to fulfill the requirements of a minyan according to Jewish law.
However, in situations where it is not possible to gather a minyan from observant Jews alone, some authorities allow for non-observant Jews to be included in the minyan under certain conditions. It is recommended to consult with a competent halachic authority for guidance on this matter, as the specifics can vary depending on the circumstances.
In any case, the overarching principle should be one of inclusivity and compassion, seeking to bring all Jews closer to their heritage and to each other, ultimately strengthening the fabric of the Jewish community as a whole.
May we all strive to fulfill the mitzvah of loving our fellow Jews as ourselves, and may our efforts to reach out to others bring blessings and unity to our community.
Kaddish for him. The woman explained that she was not observant and did not feel comfortable reciting the prayer. Her father responded that she must find a way to say Kaddish for him, as it was essential for his soul’s well-being.
After hearing this story, the woman began attending services at Rabbi Mandel’s shul and reciting Kaddish for her father. The congregation welcomed her, and she felt a sense of peace knowing that she was fulfilling her father’s wishes and helping his soul find rest.
This story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of including all members of our community in our prayers, especially when it comes to reciting Kaddish for our departed loved ones. By opening our hearts and our minyanim to those who may not be observant, we can bring comfort and healing to their souls and honor the memory of those who have passed on.
Regenerate Beis Mordechai in Flatbush, Brooklyn
Beis Mordechai in Flatbush, Brooklyn, interjected with the following story: It was many years ago that a non-religious man came to the synagogue of the Yaaser Rav, Rabbi Yoel Ashkenazi in Flatbush, to say Kaddish. The Yaaser Rav warmly and openly welcomed this non-observant individual to join in the shulâs services. It was not long before this individual became fully observant. Indeed, I remember this great personage, the Yaaser Rav, from the time that my late grandfather Reb Moshe Klass, ztâl, lived on the same block as his shul and chose to daven there. Now you can understand how this Litvak chose to attach himself to a chassidishe shtieble.
In summation, it is not the ignorant who delay the arrival of Mashiach. Rather, it is incumbent upon us that we enlighten them to the word and world of Hashem. Hopefully through this effort, we will merit the coming of Mashiach and the ensuing ingathering of all of our people to a rebuilt Holy Land, speedily in our days.