The concept of a bark mitzvah originated in 1958 in Beverly Hills, California, with the celebration of the Duke of Windsor, a black cocker spaniel named “Windy.” The event was a unique blend of tradition and whimsy, with guests bringing gifts like fountain pens and dog biscuits. Hosted by Janet and Max Salter, the bark mitzvah set the stage for future celebrations of this kind.
In the following years, the trend gained traction, leading to pet entertainer Lee Day trademarking the term “bark mitzvah” and conducting ceremonies for dogs. The practice received mainstream attention when Joan Rivers’ yorkie, Spike, had a bark mitzvah on television. Today, bark mitzvahs come in all shapes and sizes, from elaborate parties to intimate gatherings in backyards.
Synagogues have also embraced the trend, with Rabbi Steve Gross leading a service for over 250 dogs each year, complete with blessings and certificates of “bark mitzvah.” While some view the trend as controversial, others see it as a way to celebrate the bond between humans and their canine companions.
The rising popularity of bark mitzvahs has spawned a market for related products, from dog bandanas to squeaky toys. Despite some criticism from traditionalists, proponents of bark mitzvahs see them as a joyful way to celebrate the lives of beloved pets and the unique relationships they share with their owners.
Ultimately, whether seen as a lighthearted celebration or a meaningful ritual, bark mitzvahs continue to bring people together in the spirit of love and companionship.
Janet Salter, the pioneer of the bark mitzvah concept, reflects on the phenomenon she helped start with pride, knowing that her creation has made a lasting impact on pet owners around the world.
Liat Wasserman contributed to this story.