When meeting with people, the importance of being fully present and disconnected from distractions like phones is highlighted. Leaving the phone aside and focusing on the conversation demonstrates respect and attention.
Author Simon Sinek emphasizes the psychological impact of holding a phone during interactions. It sends a message that the person is not the primary focus, leading to a lack of connection and engagement.
The importance of being present and attentive is reflected in Hashem’s invitation to Moshe to be fully engaged on Har Sinai. Being “there” implies not just physical presence but also mental focus and connection.
Technology poses a challenge to being spiritually present in various aspects of life. Constant distractions can lead to “absent presence,” where individuals are physically there but mentally elsewhere.
Creating sacred spaces free from distractions, such as leaving phones outside the Sanctuary, can enhance the spiritual experience and deepen connections with Hashem.
Implementing rules for device-free times, such as during family dinners or date nights, can improve relationships and foster genuine presence and engagement.
Developing rituals like switching phones to airplane mode before important events or conversations can eliminate distractions and show a commitment to being fully present and engaged in the moment.
(Reposted from the Rabbi’s site)